If he was a guide dog, would this even be a question? He's trained, he's not going to be noticable or hurt anyone! If he's like the other dogs I see, he'll curl up under the table and go to sleep while you're all busy anyway!
I think you should both stand your ground and go. It's not just about this single dinner - it's about every get together thereafter, too. They just have to get used to it! There might be tension to begin with, but if they make an issue or drama out of it, that's THEIR problem. You're not ruining anything.
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Date: 2009-06-17 07:45 am (UTC)I think you should both stand your ground and go. It's not just about this single dinner - it's about every get together thereafter, too. They just have to get used to it! There might be tension to begin with, but if they make an issue or drama out of it, that's THEIR problem. You're not ruining anything.
*hugs*